
11-11 was such an ideal date to get married because we knew we would never forget it. We even get two times a day when our digital clock reads out a reminder 11:11! and if one of us looks at the clock at that very moment, we shout out, "Eleven - eleven! I love you!" But 11-11 doesn't tell us how many years. When we were trying to figure it out last night we couldn't believe it'd been only three. Yes, sometimes it feels like forever.... But then, we think about how much has happened. Manus started a new business, we had Katie, and we moved to another country. We've been to Tahiti, New Zealand, Ireland, England, France, California!
I love my husband. I make his life amazingly difficult and he still wants to keep me around! I think that with every year together we learn a little more of what it means to be married. (I really thought it came with a handbook). I'm still not as good as I would like to be at telling him how much I appreciate all the sacrifices he has made for us. He works so hard, so many long hours and he doesn't complain. I am still struggling with "loving him FOR his faults, not just in spite of them" and he accepts and loves me for everything that I am. Sometimes I read his silence for indifference and I am wrong. Sometimes I am angry. Sometimes I am selfish. Sometimes I am childish. (shocking, I know...) I am so sorry for what those feelings bring and I am trying every day to grow and better myself - not just for me, but for my husband and the vows we took on this day three years ago. We are a team. Go team Walsh!




I love you, Manus.
Here's to another great three years. (at least, of course) Just keeping it to realistic goals... ;)
3 comments:
Happy Anniversary Malinda and Manus.
Your blog today was beautifully said, Malinda. Your sentiments will stike a cord with many husbands and wives.
Have a great anniverasry
Lots of love
Clodagh,Simon, Robert and Esme xxx
I loved that...
Happy Anniversary!
Happy Anniversary! Very nice post. Hope you had a good one. My parents were married on November 11 as well, and they've been married for 42 years. Perhaps it's a lucky date?
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